Emotions and Essential Oils

As a natural health educator, some of the most common questions I receive are related to how our emotions affect our health and how we can use essential oils to relieve and release stored emotional trauma. Understanding how our emotions work and how our brain processes them is key to understanding the process by which we can overcome and let go. Let’s dig into the science behind our emotions, our sense of smell, and how to use oils to improve emotional health.

What is an Emotion?

There are so many definitions for that single word. This is possibly because There is no scientific consensus on a single definition. Emotion represents a mental state associated with thoughts and feelings. It is a conscious experience with intense mental activity and and a high degree of pleasure or displeasure. Emotion is often intertwined with mood, temperament, past experiences, personality, disposition, and motivation.

A Look at the Emotional Center of the Brain

The limbic system, often referred to as the “emotional brain”, resides within the cerebrum. This portion of the brain handles emotional response, hormone function, behavior, motivation, long-term memory, and sense of smell. Several other specialized areas reside within the limbic system, including:

  • Hippocampus – responsible for forming short- and long-term memories.
  • Amygdala – perceives emotions such as anger, fear, and sadness; plays a role in controlling aggression; helps store memories of events and emotions; also plays a role in sexual activity and libido.
  • Hypothalamus – controls reproduction, sleep patterns, and body homeostasis.
  • Thalamus – relays sensory information to the cerebral cortex.

In addition to being closely tied to the sense of smell, you can see why our emotions can affect so many other things in our lives. The portion of your brain that governs emotions also plays a part in memory, sexual desire, reproduction, sleep, and overall homeostasis.

How do Essential Oils Impact Emotions?

The exact details of how smells impact emotions are difficult to define. But let’s consider what happens when we inhale an aroma.

When an odorant molecule floats through the air into your nose, it lands on tiny hairs inside your nose called cilia. The cilia then start to vibrate, generating an electrical signal. The signal travels up to a receptor cell, which starts to bundle packets of smell information, and sends projections into the olfactory bulb. The smell information is even further bundled into packets that travel to the limbic system via pyramidal cells.

Here in the limbic system, an emotional shift occurs in response to the smell. For example, we all know the experience of smelling something that triggers a memory, or knowing that you do not want to date a certain person because you can’t stand the way he or she smells. Although it is not exactly clear how the emotional response forms, it is very clear that it does. Furthermore, studies show that olfactory-evoked memories often create a higher emotional arousal than simply recalling a memory with no associated olfactory stimuli.

So How Can We Change Our Emotions Using Essential Oils?

As the name indicates, aromatherapy is a therapy that uses aromas. More accurately, aromatherapy is a branch of botanical medicine using volatile and aromatic plant compounds. Because of the unique direct relationship between emotions and olfaction within the brain, essential oils can help “unlock” stored memories and emotions. When you breathe in an essential oil, molecules enter the limbic system and elicit an emotional response.

An aversion to a particular oil may indicate something more than just personal preference. It could actually be stirring an unpleasant emotional response. Conversely, oils that bring about positive emotions are likely favored. This is because aromas actually have an effect on your brain waves affecting your emotions. Here is an exercise that can help you better understand and change your emotions.

Simple Emotional Release Exercise

  1. Identify the emotion and call it by name (fear, guilt, grief, anger, resentment, loss, etc.) If you cannot name the emotion but have pain in a particular area of your body, look up the area of pain in Karol Truman’s book, Feelings Buried Alive Never Die.This will help you identify and name the emotion associated with the pain.
  2. Next, look up the emotion in Releasing Emotional Patterns with Essential Oils, by Carolyn Mein. This will give you an essential oil that can be used to release your specific emotion.
  3. Grab the recommended essential oil and apply it to the appropriate area of the body. This may be the area where you are experiencing pain or another area. Mein has suggested “alarm points” and corresponding body charts to offer one possibility. Sometimes, you will just have a sense or “knowing” of where to apply the oil.
  4. In addition to this, place one drop of the essential oil in your palms, and breathe the aroma deeply while visualizing the emotion as best you can. Does the emotion live somewhere in your body? Do you detect a color, sound, taste, or other presence to it?
  5. Every emotion listed in Mein’s book also has a “way out” or opposite emotion. Memorize the name of your emotion as well as its opposite.
  6. Then, repeat the following phrases out loud:

“I choose to release the trauma behind the emotion of (insert your emotion).” Repeat 3 times.

“I choose (insert opposite word).” Repeat 3 times.

It Doesn’t Have to Hurt

One common misconception about emotional release is that the release itself will cause emotional pain. Many people assume it is necessary to relive a traumatic situation in order to move past it. While sometimes it is beneficial to revisit some things from our past, this is not always the case. Using the steps above, or some similar technique, you can gently let go of emotions. Time and time again, I hear people comment that emotional release is easier and more peaceful than they expected.

With a prayerful heart, open your mind to the possibility that it can be just that easy to let go of the burden of whatever emotional scars to which you are hanging on. They are not serving you any purpose. Take a deep breath, and give yourself permission to let them go.


In the Mood Men’s Essential Oil Roll-On

There are so many recipes for blends to boost women’s libido, but finding a great blend for your man is not always easy. Try this powerful roll-on a few minutes before “go time” to help put him in the mood.

Mister essential oil blend is a combination of sage, myrtle, fennel, lavender, yarrow, and peppermint. Formulated for men, it supports the reproductive system. Goldenrod, aptly named, improves circulation and can encourage a longer-lasting erection. Idaho blue spruce is favored by many men for its ability to balance male energies and support his endocrine system.

Optional amethyst chips enhance the essential oils and may even help put your man in the right frame of mind for intimacy.

Ingredients

11 drops Mister essential oil blend

9 drops goldenrod essential oil

8 drops Idaho blue spruce essential oil

Neutral carrier oil, such as fractionated coconut oil or sweet almond oil

Amethyst chips or roller top, optional

Instructions

  1. Combine essential oils in a 10 mL roller bottle and top with carrier oil.
  2. Add amethyst gemstone roller top or amethyst chips to bottle for an added boost.
  3. 30 minutes before bed, roll this blend over the left inner ankle and adrenal reflexology points (in the arch of the foot beneath the big toe) on your man’s feet.

Do you have any favorite essential oils for the bedroom? Comment and share below!


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Meet Me Between the Sheets Massage Oil

Here is a recipe for a tantalizing couples massage oil. The essential oils and fatty oils in this blend are warming and get the blood flowing. Plus, the amazing aroma encourages an intimate atmosphere.

Ylang ylang essential oil helps boost libido and is a natural aphrodisiac. Patchouli is also an aphrodisiac and helps balance male and female endocrine systems. Nutmeg and cypress essential oils improve circulation to encourage blood flow to all the right places, while also providing a gentle warming sensation.

Ingredients

14 drops ylang ylang essential oil

18 drops patchouli essential oil

10 drops cypress essential oil

18 drops nutmeg essential oil

4 teaspoons jojoba oil

Sesame oil

1 vanilla bean

Instructions

  1. Add essential oils to a 2 oz. bottle.
  2. Add jojoba oil and half of a vanilla bean.  
  3. Fill the remainder of the bottle with sesame seed oil.

To Use

Apply a liberal about for a warming, stimulating massage. Use caution applying this massage oil too close to sensitive areas such as the genitals. A little bit goes a long way in this region.


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Coffee DIYs to Add Some Pep to Your Date Night Routine

Okay coffee lovers, here are three simple recipes you can make with your beloved brew. What’s great is that these not only have the wonderful aroma of coffee, they also have some skin-loving attributes as well.

Coffee is high in antioxidants that can reduce the signs of aging. Plus, the caffeine in coffee can help diminish under-eye puffiness and stimulate blood flow to your skin, giving it a radiant glow. Coffee grounds make a great scrub because they are gentle on skin, yet make an effective exfoliant. Try these three recipes to perk up your skin and get you ready for a date night.

Bright Eyes Coffee Facial Mask

This mask is a bit messy but is such a fun treat for any coffee lover. You could also use coconut oil or olive oil in this recipe, but avocado oil is loaded with skin-nourishing omega-3 fatty acids and vitamins A, D, and E. The honey in this recipe also adds incredible softness to your skin, while clove essential oil works to improve complexion.

Ingredients

1/4 cup coffee beans

3 tablespoons honey

2 teaspoons avocado oil

3 drops clove essential oil

Instructions

  1. Using a coffee grinder or blender, grind coffee beans into a fine powder. You will need 3 tablespoons of coffee powder.
  2. Combine honey, avocado oil and clove essential oil in a small bowl. Slowly add coffee powder to form a paste.
  3. Store in an airtight jar for up to 2 weeks.

To Use

This mask is best applied with a small brush. Paint all over face, avoiding the eyes, and allow to soak for 20-30 minutes. Wash off with facial cleanser.

Perfectly Perky Coffee Soap

Making your own soap is very easy. This recipe combines the awakening properties of coffee and peppermint essential oil. These bars make great gifts for teachers or friends.

Ingredients

1 pound goat milk soap base

1/8 cup ground coffee beans

15 drops peppermint essential oil

Soap mold for 6 bars or you may use a cupcake pan with silicone cupcake liners.

Instructions

  1. Cut soap base into small pieces and melt over a double boiler.
  2. Once melted, remove from heat, and allow to cool for 1-2 minutes.
  3. Add ground coffee and stir well. Stir in color (if desired) and peppermint essential oil.
  4. Pour into soap molds or cupcake pan and allow to cool completely. You may place soap in the refrigerator for 1 hour, but do not freeze the soap.
  5. Once they are hardened, remove from molds and allow to dry for several hours.

Coffee Body Scrub

This is a great addition to add a little pick-me-up to your morning shower! It is a slight variation from my other coffee body scrub recipe. Cypress essential oil is great for circulation and tightening the skin, while frankincense is great for all-over skin support. This recipe makes 2 half-pint (8 oz.) jars: one for you and one for a friend.

Ingredients

1/4 – 1/2 cup organic coconut oil

1 cup ground coffee beans (It is best to use fresh coffee. If you are using brewed coffee, make sure grounds are thoroughly dry.)

1/8 cup white sugar

1/2 cup brown sugar

6 drops cypress essential oil

8 drops frankincense essential oil

1 teaspoon vanilla extract (optional)

Instructions

  1. Melt coconut oil in a small saucepan and set aside to cool.
  2. In medium bowl, combine coffee, sugars, and essential oils. Mix well.
  3. Add cooled coconut oil to coffee mixture.
  4. Add coconut oil to get the consistency you desire.
  5. Finally add vanilla, if desired, and stir well to thoroughly combine.
  6. Spoon scrub into small jars.

To use

Simply massage a small handful of scrub into the skin while in the shower.


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